Humble pie

"We're quite volatile as individuals, but that doesn't work exponentially when we are together. Relationships are about eating humble pie. "- Guy Ritchie

The general theme of my life lately has been relationships. Our world has become expanded and condensed at the same time. While we have the capability to reach out to thousands with one stroke of the keyboard or from our phones, we are simutneously isolated from the tactile environment of the real world. I often find myself very isolated at times but realize sometimes the people we can surround ourselves with when we are not being our best self can be a nightmare to in the real world. So I just resort to liking their statuses, private messaging..etc. Personal and impersonal at the same time. Anyway I just wish folks would take more accountability in their relationships. Once you decide that you are someones friend, just like marriage it is for better or for worse. I love my friends unconditionally for exactly who they are and do not expect them to be anyone but who they are. I think when we fantasize about how a person should be we fail our friendships and become huge hypocrits. Life has its ups and downs and none of us know how we will cope in certain situations when we get there. If a friend becomes distant then I check in more not get pissed because they are not calling. We often use the term "reach out" when describing getting in touch with someone, sometimes you gotta "reach down" and lift your sistagrl or homeboy up cause when its hard out there on those streets, your real friend skills need to step up. I'm just saying, when it is hectic no punks allowed, no phonies or fakes just my real ones please. Claiming to be my friend and your not, its a task being a real friend it ain't just instagram photos of yaw'll at the club or FB statuses telling the world what movie you guys are about to watch. Its being on the other end of the line supporting her/him when they are in distress or tears. Dropping what you are doing and going to sit with them in person to really be supportive. IDK, that's how I do it and from here on out that will be my expectations or any newbies I decide to take on. I am sure someone can relate to this scenario it is way to common. Well friends, followers, future lovers or love interest, I am signing off gotta go juice my lunch. In this new blogventure I am also gonna chronicle my mission to juice for 10,days straight. If that works out than I am going for 30. I got totally inspired by my mom but also this movie I watched called Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead on Netflix. If you have Netflix you gotta check it out. Until next time, fly me to damoon!